Double Appointment Day

No graphic photos!  

I will start with how it went after the appointment last Wednesday up until today's double appointment.  Because I did not want Murray to have to go through having to pack my wound because he would feel like he was hurting me, we attempted to get Home Health to come.  FAILURE.  I've seen so many posts lately about our healthcare system verses other countries and being in the system now, I understand.  Anyway, I went to backup plan of having Matt come over to pack the wound, but Murray said he could do it.  He said that he had come to terms with it knowing that each time we changed it out, I was getting better.  Luckily for me in the two times prior that I had to changed, he had been watching and studying up.  

HE HAS BEEN AWESOME.  We have the routine down now.  He sets up the surgical room - aka kitchen - while I take a shower.  The primary reason for the shower is to wet the gauze so that it is easily removed.  Once done showering, I move into the surgical room and take my seat.  I turn my head to the left, he removes the gauze, drapes it over my arm, and throws it away.  He then packs the wound.  He allows me to hold the scissors until they are needed hoping I don't stab him, and he finishes up.  I usually cover it and lay on the couch for a bit before having to slap the bra back on.  It is like wearing a jockstrap for 24/7 for the men who can’t comprehend why women take off their bras immediately upon getting home after wearing it all day. 

After the appointment on Wednesday, I had some pretty hefty zingers (sharp stabbing pain that last for a couple of seconds).  Wednesday they were rapid firing and I asked Murray to get me a pain med.  I have not had pain meds since Wednesday so feeling pretty good about that.  However, I have had a couple zingers upon returning home.  Appointments wear and stress me out and probably bring on the zingers. 

Appointment #1 – Surgeon

We met with the surgeon today to check on progress.  Betty Boob is looking quite a bit better.  The end of bruising (yellow) is done for the overall, but around the wound is still pretty red.  Murray wanted her to assess whether he has been doing a proper job of packing.  She said that the packing looked good.  She covered my arm before removing it so to not drape it over my arm before the trash.  They then decided that she would watch as Murray packed the wound.  Um, does that mean I don’t need to pay her for her services? 

We also talked about a wound vac.  Primarily, a sponge inside the wound with a machine sucking it out.  We have an appointment at the Wound Clinic tomorrow to have the device inserted.  Not sure if device is the right word, but that’s what I am using.  That will need to be changed 3 times a week – Monday/Wednesday/Friday (Probably Tuesday for Christmas).  My biggest concern is that there is a sealant and well my body doesn’t like adhesive.  So, if that is an issue, we will return to the old fashion job of Murray packing my wound.  I sent a text to my sisters discussing all this.  I told Murray “Amy is googling wound vac right now”.  I was right.

With the packing of the wound, healing will take 4-6 weeks.  With the wound vac, it might be 3-5 weeks. 

Appointment #2 – Radiologist

No time to doddle as the appointments were back-to-back, but luckily a floor apart from each other.  We first met with Nicole, the nurse, and she went over a bunch of stuff.  Then the radiologist (?) came in and discussed a lot.  Murray took notes.  I sat there glazed but listening.  Primarily, the plan, ONCE THE WOUND IS HEALED, will be to have 19 sessions of radiation.  What does sessions mean…well primarily 19 days of driving an hour, getting radiated for 15-30 minutes, driving home an hour.  But first, after the wound is healed, I will have a scan to pinpoint where they want to send the laser beams.  One to two weeks after that, a plan will be in place, and I will start the radiation. 

Before you ask, I am still waiting to hear about whether chemo is needed. 

After the appointments, I needed a chai and Pabst said he needed a pup cup.  We then followed it up with a walk at the Durango Dog Park where it was apparent a lot of individuals have Monday’s off.  But Pabst was a wagging his tail and he didn’t get mounted so that was a good thing.

Until next time….